Yesterday morning at breakfast, our Spanish Galgo, Cho, barked loudly right behind me. I yelled, “Cho!” and then laughed because I sounded just like him. Barking woman.
Which brings me to the topic of reactivity. Knee jerk reactions.
Many years ago, during a creative residency, composer Pauline Oliveros taught me several of her Deep Listening strategies. One she called the instantaneous strategy. It works like this: when you hear a sound, you respond with a sound immediately. Or you move as fast as you can when you see or sense a movement. Being good at this strategy demands that the response bypasses conscious thought, which tends to slow things down.
Practicing the instantaneous strategy is different from a knee jerk reaction, in that it is intentional. I have discovered that practicing the instantaneous strategy can tune you up for those moments when you may need to respond instinctively very, very fast. Like when a cup slips out of your hand. Or when a child or an animal is in danger.
Here’s is today’s recipe: find a moment to practice being instantaneous. Tell me about it.